Lack of apathy
May 26, 2008 at 11:02 pm | In Uncategorized | Leave a CommentTags: apathy, Liao Ning girl, public enemy, Sichuan earthquake
Why on earth did people like this exist… *sigh* To think she’s also a citizen of China [Liao Ning]
Moments of truth
May 24, 2008 at 12:23 am | In Adolescent, Life | 4 CommentsTags: Adolescent, examinations, parents, results, tutor
It’s this time of the year again. I do not know if it’s the same for others, but to me at least, in the past I would quite fear this time of the year. Why? Well, by this period, the mid-year examinations for school-goers would have ended and the results would have been released.
And hence, the fear “factor” has arrived. As I am pretty close to one of my tutees, I saw how her mum got frustrated [angry and scarily scolding her kids] with both her children’s results. It totally brought back those scary “moments of truth” in the past. :p Today, I could feel the same kind of chills and fear that run through me when I was still a school-goer back then. Usually it doesn’t really matter how much/little effort we put into the preparation for examination, because the fact remains that your parents only remembered the times when you kept requesting to watch the TV or played games instead of studying. So when your results came back and the worst part [i.e. the report book] was to be released, you know that your happy days are all gone.
For the next one to two weeks from the day you took back your report book, the whole house is dead quiet; you do not [dare to] ask whether you may watch the TV or computer; you just try to make your presence as un-noticeable as possible [for fear that any tiny action made will trigger a few hours' worth of lecture and 'nagging' on why you didn't study, that's why you get such kinds of results now]. If you are lucky, you will probably get a few more assessment books or hire a tutor.
However, you will probably return to your old self in one month’s time; a leopard cannot change its spots. My point is: during this period when results are given back, why should all the children be fearing when they [might] have been giving their best already. All these talks about achieving and attaining better and better grades have created a new generation of result-oriented children instead of truly knowledge-hungry children. What will happen if this ‘culture’ carry on?
Your guess is as good as mine.
When information goes unchecked
May 21, 2008 at 11:33 pm | In Technology | Leave a CommentTags: distorted information, poem, Sichuan earthquake, Technology
Recently, because of technology, we receive news about the disasters and unrest from different parts of the world at just a click. Putting aside all the pros and cons about using technology to our advantage [or disadvantages], I just want to highlight something which can be quite disturbing.
Last weekend, I was awed when I saw an sms which was supposed to be a poem by a famous poet Li Bai [Tang dynasty] and it actually predicted the Sichuan earthquake in the same year as the Beijing Olympics:
北暮苍山兰舟四
京无落霞缀清川
奥年叶落缘分地
运水微漾人却震
but as much as I was amazed and impressed by how the great poet actually had the ability to predict the tragedy a few hundred years back, I wanted to find out the title of the poem.
And guess what? A quick search online revealed that there was NEVER this poem; never existed! In fact, there were previously two other versions which netizens had “cooked” up:
日暮苍山兰舟小,
本无落霞缀清泉。
去年叶落缘分定,
死水微漾人却亡。
and
法暮苍山兰舟家,
国无落霞缀清乐。
去年叶落缘分福,
死水微漾人却亡。
这诗是这样的,真正的来源是——侠客梦第四卷:江湖搏命第一百零一章日暮苍山兰舟小作者:燕随心。这里仅仅作为文章的题目所体现出来。剩下都是爱国人士所撰写的。
还有刘长卿《逢雪宿芙蓉山主人》较为接近。我想这是今人假托中华诗歌以至唐代诗歌的顶级巨星李白之名义而要表达一种民族的愤慨与爱国之情罢了。刘长卿《日暮苍山》原文是:
日暮苍山远,天寒白屋贫。(写诗人投宿山村时的所见所感)
柴门闻犬吠,风雪夜归人。(写诗人投宿主人家以后的情景)
Well sorry, I am just disgusted by the distortion of facts. The netizens are very creative, and I must say that they are concerned with current affairs. However, to mislead people with false information shouldn’t be encouraged. What’s more, this sms has been so widely circulated [it started from China and it's now circulating widely in Singapore too] that it makes people believe it’s real! And so I realize that 1) IF I wasn’t IT-inclined, I would probably have taken the sms as it is and believed it, without stumbling upon this fact by googling it; 2) IF I wasn’t IT-inclined, I would have never realized it was not a poem which held the prediction since hundreds years ago.
Okay fine, and IF technology wasn’t this advanced, I probably would have never received that sms nor rant here.. hahaa~ :p However, bottomline is: one should be responsible and NOT spread untrue information around isn’t it?
《在乎》
May 9, 2008 at 1:52 pm | In Adolescent, Life | 4 CommentsTags: care, intention, truth
“这无论是潜意识的改变与否,
但它确确实实是我们所要看到的结果,
不是吗?”
譬如笔者的妹妹有一回就很气恼地倾诉说她的朋友总是以一副不以为然地态度来回应大家对他的关心。友人的一句:“你们讲的大道理我都听得懂,只是看我要不要听进去而已”就足以让妹妹气愤地投诉:“怎么会有这样的人,竟然说出这样的话!把朋友们的关心当成什么了!”
可是,对笔者而言,该友人并非真的不在乎。往往,人都爱压抑着自己的情绪,别人说的,我们实际上是有听进去的,但是就爱嘴硬,嚷着“不在乎,不管”,但是如果我们是真的不在乎,我们其实就已没有听进去了呀。更何况,我们是否有留意到其实那个我们说的人逐渐地在改变呢?嘴上嚷着“无所谓,不在乎”的人,其实很在意地把你说的话放在心上。这无论是潜意识的改变与否,但它确确实实是我们所要看到的结果,不是吗?
笔者相信,如果一个人对你而言是不重要的话,你就不会浪费力气去生他的气了吧。你既然会生他的气就表示他在你的心目中是占有一定的地位的。你会气愤他的毫不在乎,他的无所谓,是因为你在乎这个朋友,所以你也不必再骗自己说“不管他了啦,他爱怎样就随他去吧。我才懒得管他咧。”倘若你是真的不在乎,那么他人的反应根本不足以让你苦恼,生气。
同样的道理,身为儿女的我们时常会觉得父母很多时候都很不讲道理,成日只会骂我们,所以就以更叛逆的态度去面对,有些更以“我才管他去死”的态度来作回应。我们何尝不去想想,父母有时口头上是说不管我们了,但是事实上他们的心里的痛楚我们根本无法感受到。如果他们真的不在乎我们,那又何必来骂我们,打我们,搞到自己的身体吃不消?为何他们还要那么辛苦地工作来养育我们呢?我们是否有丝毫感恩的心呢?要面对我们的无理取闹,我们的要求,他们可是背负着何等的重担。
对于老师们,我们又以怎样的态度呢?老师也都不在乎我们吗?他们的工作是否只是在学业上而已?我们可有体谅他们的苦心,那份想把我们教育得更好的用心?难道我们真的视而不见,一点儿也不在乎吗?
所以,请不要再说你不在乎。因为事实上,其实你比谁都还要来得在乎所发生的一切。
譬如笔者的妹妹有一回就很气恼地倾诉说她的朋友总是以一副不以为然地态度来回应大家对他的关心。友人的一句:“你们讲的大道理我都听得懂,只是看我要不要听进去而已”就足以让妹妹气愤地投诉:“怎么会有这样的人,竟然说出这样的话!把朋友们的关心当成什么了!”
可是,对笔者而言,该友人并非真的不在乎。往往,人都爱压抑着自己的情绪,别人说的,我们实际上是有听进去的,但是就爱嘴硬,嚷着“不在乎,不管”,但是如果我们是真的不在乎,我们其实就已没有听进去了呀。更何况,我们是否有留意到其实那个我们说的人逐渐地在改变呢?嘴上嚷着“无所谓,不在乎”的人,其实很在意地把你说的话放在心上。这无论是潜意识的改变与否,但它确确实实是我们所要看到的结果,不是吗?
笔者相信,如果一个人对你而言是不重要的话,你就不会浪费力气去生他的气了吧。你既然会生他的气就表示他在你的心目中是占有一定的地位的。你会气愤他的毫不在乎,他的无所谓,是因为你在乎这个朋友,所以你也不必再骗自己说“不管他了啦,他爱怎样就随他去吧。我才懒得管他咧。”倘若你是真的不在乎,那么他人的反应根本不足以让你苦恼,生气。
同样的道理,身为儿女的我们时常会觉得父母很多时候都很不讲道理,成日只会骂我们,所以就以更叛逆的态度去面对,有些更以“我才管他去死”的态度来作回应。我们何尝不去想想,父母有时口头上是说不管我们了,但是事实上他们的心里的痛楚我们根本无法感受到。如果他们真的不在乎我们,那又何必来骂我们,打我们,搞到自己的身体吃不消?为何他们还要那么辛苦地工作来养育我们呢?我们是否有丝毫感恩的心呢?要面对我们的无理取闹,我们的要求,他们可是背负着何等的重担。
对于老师们,我们又以怎样的态度呢?老师也都不在乎我们吗?他们的工作是否只是在学业上而已?我们可有体谅他们的苦心,那份想把我们教育得更好的用心?难道我们真的视而不见,一点儿也不在乎吗?
所以,请不要再说你不在乎。因为事实上,其实你比谁都还要来得在乎所发生的一切。
Appreciate what you have
May 6, 2008 at 2:43 pm | In Life | Leave a CommentTags: appreciate, Life, population
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